Q:Some of my groomsmen live in different cities. How can we get the same tuxedos?
A:The only way to guarantee they'll all be the same is to order everyone's tuxedo from the same company. The store will give the groom out-
Q:Can the groom wear a different tuxedo than the groomsmen and ushers?
A:With the exception of child attendants, everyone, including the father of the bride and of the groom, should wear the same type of tuxedo. What may vary are the accessories. For example, if the male attendants are wearing a colored vest or cummerbund, the groom could wear white or black to set himself apart from the others.
Q:What is appropriate formal wear for a ceremony that begins before 6:00 p.m. with the reception after?
A:In the past, formal wear style was determined strictly by time of the ceremony. Nowadays, the time and style of the reception often indicate the appropriate formal wear. If the ceremony is scheduled at five o'clock in the afternoon and a very dressy dinner will follow at six or seven o'clock, the men should still wear black tie. (If a simpler event is planned, men may dress less formal.) In the daytime, a very formal reception would stipulate that the groom, ushers and fathers wear morning suits (also called cutaways).
Q:When wearing a cummerbund, which way should the pleats face?
A:The pleats on a cummerbund should face upwards so they can catch any crumbs that might fall.
Q:What is the difference in lapel styles? Is one style more or less formal than the other?
A:There are three types of lapels on a tuxedo jacket: the "Peak", the "Notch" and the "Shawl". The three types of lapels create different looks, but do not differ in formality.
Q:I recently received a wedding invitation that stated "Black Tie". Does that mean I have to wear a tuxedo?
A:Yes, an invitation that states "Black Tie" requires you to dress in a tuxedo. If the invitation states "Black Tie Optional" or "Black Tie Preferred", the host is giving you the option, but you can expect it to be a nice event with most men wearing tuxedos.
Q:Does "Black Tie" mean I can only wear a black tie?
A:No, any formal accessories are appropriate, depending on the function. The words "Black Tie" on an invitation indicates that you must wear a tuxedo.
Q:What does "White Tie" mean?
A:The appropriate dress for "White Tie" would be "full dress tails" with a white pique wing shirt, tie, vest, and formal shoes.
Q:When is it appropriate to wear a white dinner jacket?
A:A white dinner jacket should be worn during spring and summer only (between Labor Day and Memorial Day) and should be worn to a semi-
Q:I have seen different styles of shoes available for rental. If I have a pair of black dress shoes, can I wear those?
A:Formal shoes are patent leather shoes. High glossed black leather shoes may be worn, but for a truly formal event, patent leather is recommended.